Often stress is caused by overwhelming of tasks. It is difficult to prioritize them, it is difficult to resolve them simultaneously. They attack us like a pride of predators, biting from multiple sides.
Or, we could have a one task with multiple choices. And it is difficult to choose the right one. We are afraid to make a mistake. What should we do then?
Whatever solution we take, it is always convenient to structure mind by documenting everything in the spreadsheet or mind map.
In mathematics, there is a thing called game theory. It is used in computer algorithms when our electronic enemies in Starcraft make their decisions.
"Minimax" is for minimizing maximum loss. First we define a maximum possible loss for every problem if it is not resolved timely. Then we sort problems by this maximum loss in descending order. Then we concentrate on the first one (with the greatest loss possible).
E. g. we see simultaneously falling from the table down to the floor the following:
- a bottle of milk
- a spoon
- a little baby
Which one would we catch first, letting others to break down on the floor?
Let the problem resolve themselves
Some problems can be postponed if they are not urgent. Surprisingly, many of them are resolved by themselves after a while. Or we just realize we don't need to resolve them.
If another man can repair my car cheaply, I better pay to him.
What our God tells to us? Do not neglect intuition - sometimes it is the only instrument we have.
Make the first step and wait
Often the way is unpredictable and step on a road depend on each other. There is no need to spend time on thinking about every step if some of them could become redundant.
E. g. the problem is the car won't start. And we don't know the certain reason behind that. The process is we check possible failures step by step. First, we check whether battery is dead: try to start the car with the jump starter. If the reason is battery, we will lose our time thinking beforehand about all the other failure.